Do you easily fall for guys who are sweet to you without bothering to know what they're really like? And after that, you want to be with them already because you're scared that the few great times you've texted with each other will disappear if you don't get him chained to you? Do you let them kiss you and hold your hand even if you've just been hanging out for a few days?
Maybe its because you fall in love too easily. Don't get me wrong. The person you'll end up with is going to be one lucky bastard but the path going there is going to be long and rocky if you don't learn how to take care of yourself first. See, the reason why you often get your heart broken is you don't put value on yourself. When someone shows you an act of kindness or sweetness, you start thinking that you are so lucky to have someone like that in your life when the realily of the matter is, you just deserve to be treated like that, everyday. Everyone's supposed to be kind and polite when they meet someone new. That is normal. There's nothing special about that. Don't be easily flattered.
Get a notebook, walk around the park, watch a movie or do whatever it takes to make you see firsthand what makes you such a damn great person. Never forget that. That way when someone does the moves on you, you won't fall because you know you're better than that.
You always are better to someone and unless you find that person who can see that and will make the extra effort to show you, not just some random moves, then please, do not settle. The smile deserves to be with someone who truly makes you happy.
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Posted by Gab at 11:51 AM | 9 Comment/s