HOW TO MAKE SURE YOUR BRAKE-UP IS NOT BITTER
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Tell your partner firstBefore telling the whole world about how you want to end the relationship, make sure it is only your partner who finds out first. It is not respectful towards the partner if everyone knows that your relationship is going to end except him or her.
The right spaceAnother important aspect about ending a relationship with grace is where you choose to break the news to your partner. Try not to do this is in a public place like a restaurant as there might be too many people around and it might inhibit you from saying everything you want. Instead, choose a place where both of you can feel comfortable.
Do it personallyThe worst thing you can do while breaking up with someone is to end your relationship over the phone or via e-mail. Whether or not your relationship was good or bad, your partner deserves to know this in person. you must make time to meet your partner and then do it face to face.
Be simple
There's no need to put him or her through the history of your decision to break-up. They do deserve an explanation, but save your partner (and yourself) the long-winded reasons of exactly why and how things went sour.
The consequencesWhen you end a relationship, you have to face the consequnces. so before you break-up, be sure you have completely thought it out and don't do it on an impulse. Think of all possible consequences both good and bad and then make a move.
Ending a relationship is never easy, but it doesn't have to be hell
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said last February 27, 2008 at 6:27 PM
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soo true!!!!!!
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said last February 27, 2008 at 6:28 PM
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bakit ba kasi ang sakit!!!!!
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said last February 27, 2008 at 6:28 PM
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hell pag ikaw ang iniwan..
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said last February 27, 2008 at 6:29 PM
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make sure u really want to break up with the person think hard first baka may tinotopak ka lang pala :P
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said last February 27, 2008 at 6:30 PM
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nice article u got here!
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said last February 27, 2008 at 6:39 PM
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haha wag naman sa text hahaha
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said last February 27, 2008 at 6:40 PM
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think about the consequences first before breaking up!
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said last February 27, 2008 at 6:40 PM
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think about the consequences first before breaking up!
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said last February 27, 2008 at 10:40 PM
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Wow Kat, it seems like you're the Dr. Love here ah.. Good job on all the articles. Haven't really read all articles but so far I've scanned thru yours.
Good luck girls oh plus Neil. Hehe
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said last February 28, 2008 at 12:47 PM
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life doesnt end when heartaches begin :)
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said last February 28, 2008 at 12:48 PM
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Anonymous said...
hell pag ikaw ang iniwan.. ---- oo nga!! this is true ha..
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said last February 28, 2008 at 10:55 PM
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it's easy to write blogs like this people. pero ang hirap mag let go no. :C
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said last February 28, 2008 at 10:57 PM
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oh my. totoo to! nakakainis pag ganto!
"Before telling the whole world about how you want to end the relationship, make sure it is only your partner who finds out first. It is not respectful towards the partner if everyone knows that your relationship is going to end except him or her."
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said last February 28, 2008 at 11:02 PM
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ah grabe alam ko feeling na yan. hassle. mga babae kaya lagi gumagawa nyan
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said last February 28, 2008 at 11:04 PM
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geo that is so not true! guys could do that too. baka naman immature yang girl na sinasabi mo...
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said last February 28, 2008 at 11:10 PM
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The worst thing you can do while breaking up with someone is to end your relationship over the phone or via e-mail.
-good luck sa long distance. hahaha! addie ano masasabi mo dito?
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said last February 28, 2008 at 11:26 PM
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hahaha! nako dandandan sino ka man lagot ka kay addie. tsk tsk. uuwi ung isa sa summer, ung isa sa december. baka ipa bugbog ka. love you addie! peace tayo! hahahaha!
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said last February 28, 2008 at 11:28 PM
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bakit ba yung addie lagi inaasar dito? haha. eh di ba kanila tong blog?
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"I Keep Love Real" said last February 29, 2008 at 12:47 AM
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YUP I AGREE ANONYMOUS!
THINK BEFORE U ACT!
thanks for posting comments to UA&P i keep love real :)
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"I Keep Love Real" said last February 29, 2008 at 12:47 AM
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KAT DE TRISTA,
thanks for posting comments to UA&P i keep love real :)
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"I Keep Love Real" said last February 29, 2008 at 12:47 AM
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KAT DE TRISTA,
thanks for posting comments to UA&P i keep love real :)
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"I Keep Love Real" said last February 29, 2008 at 12:48 AM
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CARA, THANKS SO MUCH SWEETIE HOPE YOU ARE ENJOYING!
thanks for posting comments to UA&P i keep love real :)
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said last February 29, 2008 at 12:49 AM
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MAITA,,
NAKAKAIYAK NAMAN COMENT MO HAHAHA!
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said last February 29, 2008 at 12:50 AM
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YUP MAYAMAN SI ADDIE SYA MAY ARI NG BLOG NATO HAHAHA
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said last February 29, 2008 at 12:51 AM
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addie may i have your cel number?
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said last February 29, 2008 at 3:55 PM
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WAIIIIIIIIIIT!!!
Bakit ganyan spelling ng break up???
nabbother ako.
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said last February 29, 2008 at 3:58 PM
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ADDIE'S CELL NUMBER???
its 0917_ _ _ _ _ _ _
POST KA PA, MADADAGDAGAN YAN! PROMISE!!!
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said last March 4, 2008 at 11:42 PM
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halo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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said last March 4, 2008 at 11:42 PM
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halo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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said last March 4, 2008 at 11:43 PM
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halo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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said last March 4, 2008 at 11:43 PM
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halo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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said last March 4, 2008 at 11:43 PM
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halo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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said last March 4, 2008 at 11:43 PM
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addie pls mary me!!!
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said last March 4, 2008 at 11:44 PM
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addie pls mary me!!!
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said last March 4, 2008 at 11:49 PM
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addie pls mary me!!!
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