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Once a liar, always a liar?

Sunday, March 9, 2008

Will a Liar Ever Change?

Being lied to by someone you love and felt you could trust is very painful and frustrating. You love your partner, so you find yourself forgiving his/her lies the first time, perhaps the second and third time as well, before you realize you are just involved with a liar. However, because you feel strongly for this person, it is not easy for you to break away, even though you know that is probably what is best for you. You hang on, with hope that things will change and he will not lie to you anymore. You justify staying with him by telling yourself that he is a good person and deep down you know he loves you- and that your relationship is wonderful and perfect- except when he lies.

What you need to ask yourself when this happens is: Do you consider a wonderful relationship one in which your partner lies to you? Is being lied to by a liar your idea of love and respect? When you are emotionally involved with someone, it is not always easy to ask and answer these logical questions. You often will make excuses for a liar, just to make yourself feel better about staying with someone who does not truly respect you. When your partner lies to you, it is because he does not respect you and is not as committed to the relationship as you would like to believe. Of course, there are different kinds of lies- little ones and big ones, but a lie is still a lie, no matter the size or reason for the lie. Look at it like this: if your partner can lie so easily over little things that are unnecessary to lie about, then you can be pretty sure that he/she will lie to you about bigger things that will really matter and damage the relationship.

Labels: I Keep Love Real, relationship advice, UAP, UAP I Keep Love Real

Posted by Avvy Hernandez at 3:33 PM | 24 Comment/s

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Anonymous said last March 9, 2008 at 4:06 PM #..

I think lying does not mean that you are a liar forever...sometimes you just have to put in context. :D sometimes the situation just requires it...

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avvy said last March 10, 2008 at 9:57 PM #..

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Anonymous said last March 10, 2008 at 10:38 PM #..

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Anonymous said last March 10, 2008 at 10:43 PM #..

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panda said last March 10, 2008 at 11:26 PM #..

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panda said last March 10, 2008 at 11:27 PM #..

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